I was listening to Mix.Fm this morning. With Sarimah and The Rod online, discussing a serious issue. Is it man or woman who are more afraid of being committed to each other?
It started yesterday regarding a listener shared her story. She is suppossed to get married tomorrow. Yeap, Friday, 19th July 2013. Exactly tomorrow and yesterday, her fiancee cabut lari. He cancelled their wedding at the very last minute. Reason with is he's not ready to tie the knot.
As usual, The Rod will defend all the male in the world. So does Sarimah.
But, since I was young, it was always man whom are not ready to be committed into a cycle so called family. Woman usually is quite reluctant due to their emotions. They thought they are in love with someone else. Or they are not confident that this future husband is capable of loving her until the last breath. No matter who ever breath's is that.
But never that a woman take off from a wedding just because of she is afraid of being in a commitment.
But men..? Yeap.. Even if you tell them that your parents would like a meet up with them, they will give you 1000 excuses. Not all..of course. But MAJORITY of them. These men will continue 'running' until at one point (or age..?) they thought it's time for them to settle down and have babies so that they won't be left alone at Rumah Sri Kenangan or any old folks home. They will not sacrifice their joy days earlier than it should be.
Any other opinions out there?